Pop sensation Rihanna says she is not the kind of woman who remainsdependent on their partners for happiness as she finds joy on her own. The R&B; star feelspeople shouldn't look for true love all the time as it comes along when least expected,Contactmusic reported. "Being in love is definitely a big part of happiness, but you haveto find joy on your own first. You can't wait for a man to make you happy, said thesinger, who has been recently rumoured to be in a romantical relationship with formerboyfriend Chris Brown and actor Ashton Kutcher. "If a man is the one thing missingfrom your life, it doesn't necessarily mean you'll be unhappy. There's so much else. Ithink people focus on love a lot. Often when you're looking, that's exactly when youdon't find it," Rihanna said.She added, "I think it's so easy to depend on a man and youshouldn't. I think it's in women's nature to do that. We're giving, we're maternal and wecare. We want to give that love and make sure they're OK every step of the way".